In Her Own Words
About Her
I am an honest and trustworthy woman with a good heart and looking to be treated the same way that I would treat others. I have a very good sense of humour and am down to earth. When I make friends I make friends for life as I respect and treasure all those dear and close to my heart. I am easy going but do not tolerate liars and false people who always move the goal posts. I am a person who says what I mean and means what I say. I love life and believe that laughter is the healing potion to any illness. I am a true friend to those I befriend. I enjoy the outdoors and love being with good friends or family for a braai. I love to get away from Johannesburg as much and when I can. I love the mountains and the sea. Be it in the mountains in the Eastern Transvaal or at the sea whether in Kwazulu Natal or the Cape - I am in God's beautiful creation and I feel very much at peace and at home when there. I love having a good dinner with a lovely glass of red wine with good company with good conversation and a few good laughs. Every body has had their bit of good luck and bad - it's up to us though as to how we handle it - only we have the power to decide whether we are happy or not. Life is what you make of it and at the moment I am loving every bit of it. I want to be myself and not have to pretend to be someone else or live up to someone else 's expectations - I am at peace within myself as to who I am and happy in my own skin - we are all unique and that's why there is always only one mould of ourselves - after our creation - the mould is broken - and in most cases thank goodness for that! :) I do not need a man in my life to validate me as a person or to complete me - I want a man in my life because I have so much love to give and I love to love. I love to cuddle on the couch in winter and watch a good movie or even when it is raining outside. I want someone in my life that will compliment me and me him and that we are above everything else - the best of friends.
About Her Ideal Match
My ideal match must be a man that knows how to treat a woman in a proper fashion. He should have a good sense of humour and be able to laugh at a joke and even at himself when and if the need arises. He should have respect for himself and the manner in which he treats a woman. Like me for who and how I am. Be able to communicate and hold down a reasonable conversation. Be genuine and generous and treat me the way in which he would like to be treated. A person that does not lie and move the goal posts all the time. My ideal match is honest, reliable and trustworthy as there is nothing worse than a "pretentious" person. He must be same at the time you meet and be consistent during the friendship/relationship and not say what I want to hear but be honest without being cruel. My ideal match would be someone who is a genuine person and who is looking for a genuinely good woman and be a happy person and appreciate the small and finer things in life. I want a man that still knows how to romance - no matter what woman say - a lady still likes to be romanced once in a while and receive a bunch of flowers every now and then. I do not ask of much from my partner only that he treat me with respect and the way in which he would like to be treated. I am always full of jokes and smiles and would love to have a man that knows how to laugh and laugh from his heart and that one can hear that it is a heartfelt laugh that first starts at the bottom of his stomach. All in all I want to know and feel what love is as with past experiences those three words "I love you and I am sorry" are easily said but are empty words when they are not meant from the heart so like me I want a partner that says what he means and means what he says and has nothing still to prove to the world. No men that like the threesome syndrome "me, myself and I." To all those that read my profile - thank you and to you I send love and light.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Bedfordview (Primrose Hill), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
176cm (5' 9.3") | |
Body Type: |
Ask me later | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Legal | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
173cm (5' 8.1") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
White |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Latin; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Sci-Fi; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Cricket; Extreme sports; Golf; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Motorsport; Rugby; Soccer; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; German; Greek; Italian; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
