In Her Own Words
About Her
I've learned that happiness is multiplied when shared.
I believe life is what you make of it and I enjoy the making.
Looking to share life. That's pretty much it.
I could be writing a whole lot of bull here in the good fashion of selling oneself, and it's better to get to know a person in person, but here goes: I have a heart of gold and a lot to give. I'm independent, know what I want, am down to earth with my head occasionally in the clouds. I enjoy laughing, messing around, talking kak... as well as stimulating conversation, interesting discussions and insights into ways of seeing the world.
I'm told I'm easy to be around. I don't seek drama or take the world too serious. I'm quite passionate about most things, love what I do and am always keen to try new things.
I enjoy the outdoors, going to the movies, game evenings, live music and time spent chilling with family and friends. My work is quite demanding, but I've always managed to prioritise the people in my life.
I'm not keen to chat for ages and exchange endless messages here, if we find each other interesting, let's meet up and see how things go. Chemistry between two people is not something one can create, so let's see if it's there. If not, going on a 'date' is like watching a movie or reading a book - you gain insight into another human being and learn something about their world. So nothing to lose really.
"We are all a little weird and life's a little weird,
and when we find someone whose weirdness
is compatible with ours, we join up with them
and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love."
- Dr. Seuss
About Her Ideal Match
I'm looking for someone to share life with, hang out, be easy together and go on adventures to random places with. I find it more constructive not to believe in forevers and 'the one', but that doesn't mean I don't believe in love and soul-mates - or the possibility thereof.
I find all these 'specify hair and eye colour' things ridiculous. I believe it boils down to chemistry and that that is not based on looks. Basic requirements: a sense of humour, a good heart and an openness to the world.
"Do you see faces in things?
Do you listen to the wind as it sings?
Do you love your mother?
Attempt to understand the 'other'?
Do you seek the moon on a cloudless night?
When faced with injustice - do you put up a fight?
Do you see beauty even in ugly places?
Do you put your hand to your heart when it races?
Do you dance in the rain?
Do you understand that through challenge we gain?
Do you "mhhh" for deliciousness?
Is time spent in nature 'bliss'?
Do you search the clouds above?
Do you love?
Do you 'get' the spirit of a child?
Do you go wild?
Does 'impossible' mean less and less?
But most of all:
Do you want to say 'yes'?"
:-)
What Her Friends Say
LuckilyDa hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Southern Peninsula (Muizenberg), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
39 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
167cm (5' 5.7") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
German | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Teacher / Professor | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Southern Peninsula (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
28 - 40 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A cruiser |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Jazz; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Educational; Nature / Wildlife; Soap operas |
Movie Frequency: |
It's a weekly ritual |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Board games; Card games; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Making Music; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing; Shopping; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Writing books; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Athletics; Badminton; Bowling; Bungee jumping; Camping; Chess; Dancesport; Hang- / Paragliding; Hiking; Martial arts; Pool; Rock climbing; Running; Sailing; Scuba diving; Sky diving; Snorkeling; Soccer; Surf skiing/kayaking; Surfing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Volleyball; Walking; White water rafting |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; French; German; Greek; Italian; Japanese; South African; Sushi; Vietnamese |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Fish |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Reptile(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Very Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Honesty: |
Very |