In Her Own Words
About Her
I have just moved back to Durban after 8 years in Cape Town and am looking to meet some new people, not on the hunt for Mr Perfect as I know that doesnt exist, we all just trying to figure out who we are and be the best we can be.
I have gone through quite a lot and am now reevaluating my life and what I want from it.
I would like to think I am fun to be around, loyal, caring and funny . Once I let someone into my life and they have gained my trust I will have their back forever. My family and friends are super important to me and are really the foundation of who I am.
I used to be a party animal but will confess I am now quite a homebody. I love the beach, beautiful surroundings, having time to lie on my bed and read my latest book, spending time with my family and finding quirky restaurants and markets to visit. I would love to travel more one day and explore more of what is out there in the world.
I am past the point of game playing in my life and have learnt that being direct and honest is the only way to be.
About Her Ideal Match
I thought I had met my match but I hadn't, so at this point I am not looking for Mr Perfect. I am looking for someone whose company I enjoy, who puts a smile on my face, makes me laugh and just who accepts me for who I am.
I think I have figured out what it is I don't want anymore and that is a relief :)
I just want to be treated with respect, kindness and love and to give the same in return,
I enjoy someone who has good banter and can take as good as he can give. I am quite a strong personality so a strong character and good communication skills would be cool.
I do like someone with ambition and a passion for something in life but I am not about to dictate what that should be. Life has taught me to be open to all possibilities and that when curveballs hit its important to have someone who will support you at your side.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Durban (Durban North), KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
45 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Durban; Durban North; Hillcrest; Umhlanga; Ballito; Umdloti (KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
34 - 44 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
173cm (5' 8.1") - 191cm (6' 3.2") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Black; Greying; Grey | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Danish; Dutch; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Italian; Portuguese | ||
Religion: |
Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Yes; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Funny; Intelligent; Moody; Sarcastic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Folk; Pop / Top 40; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Romance |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Reality shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Indian; Italian; South African; Sushi |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Not any more |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
Ask me later |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Tattoo(s) |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using FM Dating: |
Curious; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |