thulaneD

30 – Springs (Kwa-thema white city), Gauteng, South Africa

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

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About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Springs (Kwa-thema white city), Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
30
Star Sign:
Aquarius
Height:
150cm (4' 11.1")
Body Type:
Slim
Looks:
Average
Hair Colour:
Black
Eye Colour:
Brown
Ethnicity:
Black/African
Home Language:
Zulu
Other Languages:
Portuguese; Sepedi; Sesotho; Tswana
Religion:
Christian / Catholic
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
Yes
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Trying to Quit
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
High / secondary school
Occupation:
Administrative / Secretarial
Income:
Enough

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
18 - 35
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body Type:
Any
Looks:
Any
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Not important at all
Ethnicity:
Any
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Relationship Status:
Any
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

but many ppl i know, have real freinds that get them, i go to work, then i go home. Im a quieter person who tries to be nice to people and smile and listen,i try to be interested in them, but none wants to know me, or become my friend, ppl are so into thier own life. I am worth knowing, i am average looking and try to look ok, but noone sees wants to get to know me.

I like my job and i work shifts,which is fine with with me, so.. me going to sporting or social clubs or taking up a hobby isnt possible,have tried groups but they all rejected me, i see friends occasioanally,they are all straight, im not and i cant be out to them, they would judge and i would have no freinds left, i smile and try to have fun, and i do, but.. i feel none of them get me, one friends knows the real me, but i see her rarely due to her living in a different city.
all i want is friends who understand me, the gay women ive met judge me on being quiet,and dont want to know me, they are so cliquey and nasty or cool and distant to me
so i dont look for new freinds/dates anymore,im never good enough for them and i can never be myself with anyone, noone likes the real me, i am different things to different people,and due to my job i cant be out to everyone, all i want is to be liked for me...
i have been to see a counsellor and no, i am not depressed!
destined to be alone? sick of being left out, always...

About His Ideal Match

all i want is friends who understand me, the gay women ive met judge me on being quiet,and dont want to know me, they are so cliquey and nasty or cool and distant to me
so i dont look for new freinds/dates anymore,im never good enough for them and i can never be myself with anyone, noone likes the real me, i am different things to different people,and due to my job i cant be out to everyone, all i want is to be liked for me...
i have been to see a counsellor and no, i am not depressed!
destined to be alone? sick of being left out, always...

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More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Short
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Facial Hair:
None
Body Hair:
Smooth
Disabilities:
I have none
Body Art:
A tattoo or two
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Campy
Intelligence:
Intellectually Challenged
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
A barfly
Personality Traits:
Silly; Wild & Crazy
Valued Qualities:
Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness
Fashion Sense:
Smart (It's all about quality)
Favourite Clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Favourite Colour:
Orange
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre
Music Preferences:
Rap / Hip Hop
Reading:
I enjoy it
Books:
Romance
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
TV Shows:
Cartoons; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife
Movie Frequency:
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online.
Movie Preferences:
Action; Drama; Romance
Interests:
Board games; Computer & video games; Surfing the Internet
Sport Involvement:
Not involved at all
Sports:
Soccer
Food
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Food:
Ask me later
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a week
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at Work:
I work only a few hours a week
Pastimes of choice:
Visiting a museum or gallery
Time Online:
I'm online on weekdays only
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family Closeness:
We're very close
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm flexible
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):
Dog(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Work fewer hours
Religious Attendance:
Only on religious holidays
Dream Home:
Other
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Retirement Plans:
At home with a good book
Feelings about using FM Dating:
Hopeful
Honesty:
Extremely