In His Own Words
About Him
but many ppl i know, have real freinds that get them, i go to work, then i go home. Im a quieter person who tries to be nice to people and smile and listen,i try to be interested in them, but none wants to know me, or become my friend, ppl are so into thier own life. I am worth knowing, i am average looking and try to look ok, but noone sees wants to get to know me.
I like my job and i work shifts,which is fine with with me, so.. me going to sporting or social clubs or taking up a hobby isnt possible,have tried groups but they all rejected me, i see friends occasioanally,they are all straight, im not and i cant be out to them, they would judge and i would have no freinds left, i smile and try to have fun, and i do, but.. i feel none of them get me, one friends knows the real me, but i see her rarely due to her living in a different city.
all i want is friends who understand me, the gay women ive met judge me on being quiet,and dont want to know me, they are so cliquey and nasty or cool and distant to me
so i dont look for new freinds/dates anymore,im never good enough for them and i can never be myself with anyone, noone likes the real me, i am different things to different people,and due to my job i cant be out to everyone, all i want is to be liked for me...
i have been to see a counsellor and no, i am not depressed!
destined to be alone? sick of being left out, always...
About His Ideal Match
all i want is friends who understand me, the gay women ive met judge me on being quiet,and dont want to know me, they are so cliquey and nasty or cool and distant to me
so i dont look for new freinds/dates anymore,im never good enough for them and i can never be myself with anyone, noone likes the real me, i am different things to different people,and due to my job i cant be out to everyone, all i want is to be liked for me...
i have been to see a counsellor and no, i am not depressed!
destined to be alone? sick of being left out, always...
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Springs (Kwa-thema white city), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
33 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
150cm (4' 11.1") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Zulu | |
Other Languages: |
Portuguese; Sepedi; Sesotho; Tswana | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Trying to Quit | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
18 - 35 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
None |
Body Hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Campy |
Intelligence: |
Intellectually Challenged |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A barfly |
Personality Traits: |
Silly; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness |
Fashion Sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Orange |
Date Activities: |
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre |
Music Preferences: |
Rap / Hip Hop |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Romance |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Cartoons; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Drama; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Computer & video games; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Soccer |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Ask me later |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Time Online: |
I'm online on weekdays only |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious Attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream Home: |
Other |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
At home with a good book |
Feelings about using FM Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
