In His Own Words
About Him
“The problem is, we look for someone to grow old together, while the secret is to find someone to stay a child with.” — Charles Bukowski
Friends would probably say I’m “too nice.”
I live by a strong sense of integrity — strength, courage, and precision guide me, but I always lead with kindness and empathy. As a self-confessed thalassophile (lover of the sea 🌊), I find peace and inspiration near the water.
That said, I’m real — I swear like a sailor, but say “please and thank you” like a saint. I know when to laugh, when to listen, and when to be a gentleman.
About His Ideal Match
Tall would be a bonus, tattoos are cool. Funny, clever, kind, self-sufficient, financially secure — and someone who can give as good as she gets in playful banter. 😉
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria (Centurion), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
57 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
193cm (6' 4.0") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
None (Bald) | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
German | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
44 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
152cm (4' 11.8") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English; German; Italian; Polish; Romanian; Spanish; Swedish | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Mild; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Heavy Metal; Latin; Pop / Top 40; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Crime |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Movie Channels |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Extreme sports; Scuba diving; Shooting; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using FM Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |